|COUGAR: Gaynor Evans has dated over 100 young men|
After two failed marriages, Gaynor Evans began dating toyboys 30 years her junior in a bid to feel sexy and empowered.
The 56-year-old estimates that she’s dated over 100 young men in the past five years and says the benefits of dating younger men are obvious.Gaynor tends to go for men aged between 25 to 35 because they have more passion and she feels as though her lovers have given her “renewed vigour” in her senior years.
Speaking candidly about her sex life, Gaynor said: "It's fairly simple really – they're young, fit and fun.
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"Younger men have got stamina, drive, enthusiasm and are able to repeat perform."Describing herself as “firing on all cylinders”, Gaynor revealed that younger men are attracted to older women because they know what they want and aren't trying to tie them down.
She said: "Older women are confident in our own skins, there's no dancing around. We know what we're going to do and how to do it.
"We're not pinning them down for dates, we're not chasing them on the phone or saying: ‘What are you doing this weekend, where are you taking me?'"
The grandma-of-three meets her men on nights out or through hook-up app Tinder and specialist dating website toyboywarehouse.com.She goes on a couple of dates a week – though it can be more.
Gaynor said: ”I always have a few on the go.“I’m not saying you sleep with one, one night, another the next but over the course of a month you might see a couple of different people."
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Apart from age, the raunchy recruiter doesn't have a specific type. She’s been out with lawyers, bankers and fitness instructors from Ireland, Australia, Italy, Switzerland and France.
She said: "I prefer tall and intelligent but other than that I have dated dark, blonde and a really fit ginge.“I love muscles but don't really mind if they are lean – as long as they are keen."
Although physical attraction is important to Gaynor, it's not all about sex.
She said: "I'm not good with people I can't relate to. I like a brain. I like the intelligence."
Gaynor met her first husband when she was just a teenager and was married by the age of 18. They had three children but she ended up leaving him.Her second husband was 18 years younger than her and the couple had a son together. But after nearly 20 years it ended in divorce and Gaynor decided her love life needed a rethink.
She said: "I thought: I'm not going to let this get me down, I'm just going to have to turn this around so I reinvented myself – lost weight, went to the beauticians and started going out with my daughters, who at that point were in their late 20s, early 30s, because my good friends were all settled with their husbands or partners."
Young men would approach her and after initially rebuffing their efforts Gaynor decided to give them a chance.
She said: "In the early days when I was newly single, I was a bit wild. I'd never had a one-night stand in my youth – I didn't know what they were - though obviously I do now."Despite her carefree approach Gaynor admitted that she has become too involved with some of her toy boys.
She said: "These boys don't intentionally hurt you and you have to keep your feet on the ground - even if you've got your legs in the air - but you have to be real about it.
"You're not going to keep hold of them in the real world - Madonna and Cheryl Cole might but not me."Gaynor also confessed that her eldest daughter Laura, 37, didn't always approve of her mum's behaviour.
Laura said: "I just wanted my mum to be normal. I thought why couldn't she just find a man that's a similar age and maybe wants to settle down."
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But she now accepts her mum's wild ways - although she still doesn't want to see Gaynor in pulling mode.
"If I'm out with my mum she might have an encounter or a kiss but I don't like that in front of my face,” Laura said.
Gaynor, who has written a book called Sex and the Signposts about her exploits, isn't ready to give up her younger men just yet.She said: "It's not worth worrying about what other people think about you. You've got to do what makes you happy and young toy boys make me very happy."
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