In response,he slammed her,saying she begged him for marriage and he was never going to marry her. He also said she accused him of having a small manhood when she has a wide veejay..He also said she lives on benefits in the UK..
She responded to the video in a statement,saying she didn't release it but he did..She also says the video was sent to him last year..
Whoa! Thanks to family, friends and fans of Bustline all over the world who have been bombarding me with calls and messages about the “Crying Video” Lol. I appreciate you all and at this point; I think you all deserve some clarification.
First of all; do not be scared; I’ve not gone bunkers. Lol. I couldn’t have gone on YouTube to post a video of myself in that kind of situation. Moreso; I wouldn’t want you all to catch me without my wig; and with such an ugly faceNow, the video was sent to Tunde Bernard sometime in December/January when we had a rift and I decided to pack it all up. Hey; I’m not gonna come up here and say I don’t cry; I do cry; we all do in our closet. Not a big deal. It was my means of communicating with him at the time because I didn’t want to talk to him directly and wanted my words to sink in. Well; he obviously kept the video safe with an evil thought that he would one day use it against me and get me embarrassed. But the table turned in my favour like magic! So far I got more heartfelt messages from well meaning people the world over than the embarrassment it was intended to cause. I guess his intention bounced in his face. To God be the glory!!!
January to me is a long time ago. I have since moved on; and knowing me; I would not sit in a corner for too long. I’ve got spring in my steps and that makes me unusually unstoppable. Though my cry doesn’t last that long; but believe me; it detoxicates me and makes me feel better. Yes big girls cry too. Just like the rest of you.If you think you have tarnished my image by uploading and sharing a video that was meant to be between you and I, and you are there mocking and leaving nasty comments; I’ve got a message for you: God is watching and would definitely pay each person with their own coin. I won’t wish you the pain behind those tears; I’ll simply let God judge you. Simple.
Please this isn’t my current situation and I’m not crazy enough to post such a video. But if there is any award to dole out to me; going by this video; it’s the crier of the year award. Lol. That was some good one! People close to me know me to shed tears for even the people I don’t know. I shed tears even when watching depressing movies; despite the fact that i know it’s make-believe, It’s the soft part of me that God has not given me the grace to hide.
Bustline is still your sassy and snazzy girl who could cry and who could stay strong at the same time. By the way; I still looked pretty in the video even amidst those tears….never mind my hair though; it was blooming at the timeMaybe when next I cry; I’ll apply make up cos you never know where it would be uploaded….looolzzz.And to Tunde Bernard who thinks uploading such a private video would depress me, you are hella’ wrong you know! This babe is flyiiiiiing!!
I thank you all for your love and concern. You have all been awesome and supportive. You are all family! And I’m sorry if I haven’t picked your call. I couldn’t have picked them all.
Most of all; though it’s painful to do; but I forgive you. I won’t let you or anyone come in the way of my prayers. Love you all fam….xx
I was marvelled when I saw what the ‘wannabe’ London big babe, as people write (this makes me laugh), Yetunde wrote on her blog yesterday and today. I think I just need to put some things straight. Please Yetunde, how many stories do you want to tell us? You know deep within your heart that you asked me out, though people may not know. It was even reported when you came to Nigeria to beg me to marry you. You were stalking me around during my movie shoot in order to spite your ex-husband.
“Are you also telling people that even though you are living on state benefit support in the UK, you can actually get a stay for someone? Madam, stop this lies. You cannot even invite someone over to the UK, talk more of getting a stay. You and I know that, even if anyone does not know. Stop deceiving people because you don’t have what it takes.
“Are you also saying that despite my small manhood, you cried ceaselessly begging me to stay whenever we fought? You said I have a small manhood, yet you stayed with me for four years? I only know that my manhood will only be small to a woman with a wide womanhood (sic). Thank God I have a new relationship in which I can feel the sweetness which I could not feel over the years.
“Between November 2011 that we met till October 2014 when we separated, all I spent with Yetunde was not more than six months as I never lived in the UK as people think. Out of the six months that I stayed with her, she threatened me more than ten times with fake police report for threat to her life, fake NHS report, and so on. She even said that she wants to die because of me. She made series of audio and video clips of her raining curses on me, why? I got to realise that all she told me about her ex-husband, Babs were lies. I sat down and thought of her attitude towards a man that she had two kids for, and I asked myself: ‘am I not in hell fire?’ Anytime I tried to leave, she came up with different threats because I didn’t know much about the UK then; that was why I was in the relationship for that long until people gave me courage. “People can criticise me and say whatever they like, but it’s now in my past.
Please leave my girlfriend and my folks out of whatever problems you think you have with me, face me and me alone. (Yetunde), you know you don’t have any cloth in my house that my girlfriend can wear, stop attacking people with your problems.
“As for you Mrs Blogger, did Yetunde have respect for me when she dated Mr Kwame in Ghana where she exposed her B**BS? Who is she that I will have to hide my girlfriend from her? I have moved on with my life since last year because I need to have my own family. I am overdue for it and I’m not going to let her draw me back anymore. I regret ever meeting her. She should just move on with her life. I wonder why she keeps coming back to my life and constituting a nuisance on social media platforms.
“People should also stop thinking that Nigerian artistes are wretched; we don’t depend only on the movies we act or produce, there are many other things we do that earn us good money.
“As for me, I hate that this is happening because I am not a lousy person like Yetunde. She lives a fake life and we always fought about it. I was never willing to get married to Yetunde; she was just there for that period of time and she knew the relationship wasn’t going anywhere even though she tried to get it to be a bit more serious.
“All is history now. Her advisers should talk to her candidly to let me be. I have found a woman and I have peace with her. If you are not in the right place, no matter how hard you try to make it right, it will always go wrong.”