Today is Fathers' Day, a day specifically set aside to celebrate fathers. However, not everybody's father is worth celebrating it seems as controversial singer Maheeda opens up about not one but two terrible fathers she had growing up.
When one of her fans tweeted her saying "@MaheedaNigeria hello dear.....Happy Father Day....kisses", I'm sure the last thing she expected was what Maheeda sent in response to her.
Maheeda tweeted saying "Which father, the useless one wey leave me from birth? Abi the step one wey rape me? F*ck Father's Day!"
Though some went on to blast her, others where kind of on her side.....
read responses below:
- chaunceygrantSo sorry those bad things happened to you sweetie
- iamveekturWoah! Really deep @m9ja1forgiveness shouldnt be far fetched dear, all these you've been through made you a better person, a strong woman that you are, forget the past and embrace the present, have a wonderful Day......*jst passing* hehe
- 30spiritsYeah Fuck the father
- kemmyboldWow that's too deep.
- mochiebellaUhmmmm what a sad story........deeply moved so sorry @m9ja1
- drgbengene_bI understand your feelings dear....please 4get your past and live on!
- philine_____The father of ur future children 🙏......Once there's life,there's hope.
- 30spirits@iamveektur you taking about forgiveness.... Guess u had a really nice life..... Well imagine your dad leaving you when you need him most in your life.#fuckfathersday
- mothy9090⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️
- fxgbemiSay what you like ... If you have got the bad one doesn't mean others don't have it better. Sorry for your story it is still a beautiful world. #bethankful
- kizzy777Nobody gives a shit bitch!!!!
- sunnynehemiahWow dear this is so cute
- kemji_johnsonI understand How you both feel, but at the same time your husbands will father your children too, so let go of the past, God bless you@30spirits,@m9ja1
- real_feldishAwww so sorry dear@m9ja you are a very strong woman I I love that 👍 just be you
- fuaad_fishLol .. Caption ma bad keh !!!
- thereal_surgeWow!
- m9ja1@kizzy777 this is the kind of fathers I'm talking about, this will raped his own daughter self.. I'm blocking his pencil Dick now!
- t_mayor007Azin @m9ja1 like seriously?
- sassytrichieNawaooo...my father is cool even if he failed in his responsobilities...I still kinda love him and he is my best friend. ...buh I dnt celebrate mother's day cause i dnt even know if I av one...maheeda I dnt blame u dear...we all av different sad stories .such is life@m9ja1
- m9ja1@kemji_johnson my children will speak for themselves, I speak for me, fuck it ok? If u hav a good one celebrate him! I'm not celebrating mine. That's it!
- spopo12000Your daughters father nko?
- iamveektur@kemji_johnson you are on track! @30spirits in all you are still alive and still have the opportunity to correct mistakes of the past and make the future better...
- uniabuja1No father's day for us! Because they don't exist!! @m9ja1 (n)
- m9ja1@uniabuja1 exactly!!!
- legendary_bedeUr step dat raped you wow @m9ja1 forget it lyf is a bitch
- m9ja1@iamveektur you don't know shit what u r talking about!! Nahh you don't!! Just go celebrate your father n leave we that don't want to cos he is not there even now!
- barrysta2khappy father's day to the father of ur beautiful daughter then...
- c100mg@m9ja1 Sorry to hear this but your a blessing to yourself and people around you so shall you be to your own family..#Staystrong boo
- ellisfameAm a proud father & i hate ur hatred for fathers... Some fathers doesn't deserve that tilte cuz of their irresponsible & stupid attitude towards fatherhood & those are d kind of men u unluckily met as a child..plz for d sake of ur fans who deserve to celebrate this day as fathers,kindly wish us good...we love u Maheeda
- ellisfameAm a proud father & i hate ur hatred for fathers... Some fathers doesn't deserve that tilte cuz of their irresponsible & stupid attitude towards fatherhood & those are d kind of men u unluckily met as a child..plz for d sake of ur fans who deserve to celebrate this day as fathers,kindly wish us good...we love u Maheeda
- frankstanley95@m9ja1 Dam sad story!!!!! It's really very bad 4 ur step father if he did dat to you ..👌
- m9ja1@ellisfame fuck you!
- kemji_johnson@m9ja1, we all have one or too negative stories about life, some of us ours are worst than yours, but we have to forgive and forget and move on, for the future..I still believe you can do that.
- m9ja1@barrysta2k he is not on Ig I got send u there
- kere3310I feel you boo, some father's are gabage huh.
- m9ja1@kemji_johnson forgive what air! He was never there and is still not there , you forgive people that are sorry , even with God u must ask for forgiveness.. So how do u want me to forgive ? Huh?
- missamusaFuck Fathers day.
- floyd_officialHorrible
- m9ja1And for the record I'm not talking about your father but mine! So go celebrate yours if he deserves it and leave me alone as far as I'm concerned, mine is not a man and he is not a father!!
- missamusaMy father was never there too.
- kemji_johnson@m9ja1, I understand your heart is still heavy, I understand your feelings, I understand what some men who doesn't have the fear of God can do, likewise women, but at the same time,, you need to relieve yourself of this past..many of us have people we take as our father aside our biological father..that's the reason why we should forgive.
- gagaflicksWe all have bad stories, others are worst than ours, we should comfort people who went through the worst and not torment them or try to preach to them over social media. Sorry for what you went through @m9ja1 and glad you didn't let it hold you back in life.
- obitrizoAm so so sowie @m9ja1.Btunderstand that Diamonds are stones that were exposed to the hardest pressure.You have reached this height today cox of all the trying times you went through in life.God knows best.I wish the father of your lovely daughter a happy fathers day and of course to all other responsible fathers in the world,bothe the ones that are alive and the ones that have bowed out in the course of life trivails.I love you to faults @ m9ja1.I once fell into a drainage looking @ a picture of yours you were on a pink gown and sitting very majestically like the Queen of my life that you were.I broke my phones screen and had a slight dislocation but was indeed glad that it happened for you.You are loved more than you can imagine.My Strong woman of Substance.My Inspiration.
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- quin_jessOmg u were Raped? :O oh dear, sorry
- m9ja1@obitrizo aww now you make me cry
- felixpaceLol @obitrizo you can lie ehn ..haha im enjoying this comment section
- iam_enuose@m9ja1 very sad now I understand you much beta 4 bin wu are 2day but still you hv to 4gv&4get and move on bcos u have very reasons to tank God for who u Are 2day and for all you have archived after what u have been through @m9ja1 #shineon let ur fada$stepfada conscience be judging them while they are seeing your success
- papaskevinSo sorry. The Lord is your strength.
- hemoo_173Very very very very nice
- damosinoSometimes I try to think, why would someone rape mostly a young lady, taken her pride away from her, causing her pain for the rest of her life. Sometimes the evil in this world makes me sick mostly this crime against women. Well I just wanna say to you to stay strong, leave the past behind and keep moving on, God is ur strength!@m9ja1
- greatestimpression@m9ja1 you know, every single person has his or her share of abuse, ups and downs, but I am sure when you look over you look over your shoulder, you will find uncountable reasons to thanks for. Forgive the events of the past, forgiveness is for the strong. I know most of us are strong, You are strong. Just find liberty in Praise. You are great. Do have a blessed day. GOD punish devil, Lol!!!
- dcontroversial1Now u mk me cry@m9ja1
- m9ja1@felixpace lol how u know he lied? 😂
- mz_jennie29Awwwwwwwwww!!!! *sad*
- blessednayoHow are you doing today my love @m9ja1
- a_ceejayThat shits like that happened to u doesn't mean u shld cause all fathers, u are a role model to some pipu, dont make see their fathers differently cos of what urs did to u...its sad but if u don't let go of the past,the past won't let go of u.
- pascal_dakaNot you. Off late you have been carrying good and love message. You may have experience something else but knowing you, you are such a lovely and forgiving person. So wish us well on this day. @m9ja1
- michael_zazThat's some deep shit
- cyrilitoyaFor this I must comment,I am sorry for the Fathers who offended u,I can imagine ur pains,now I admit nobody can judge u,judgement is reserved for the almighty.Take heart sister it's all good.The end justifies the means.
- zjaneboyMaheeda. .....people never know the struggles people have gone tru in their life times. I drop every -ve tots. Knew u from the producers place and I used to judge. Ur baby was small then. Be strong mate and continue to win your battles. U r special regardless and a beautiful being. Flourish as always.#unspoken
- mr_naxsteeHappy father's day to u@m9ja1 . kudos for being a strong being for yourself & ur daughter. Stay strong & sexy girl!!!
- ennyshem@m9ja1 kudos for been strong dear
- decowilliamsSuch is life baby girl! Is not your fault some days are like that😉😜 ride on @m9ja1
- felixpaceLol @m9ja1 haba youself check it naw,inside drainage and dislocation over one pic just like that ,too funny to believe
- sassytrichie@lindaikeji gerrin here
- super2plussowie
- adexmachine555Pretty....hmm
- princess_doyinDon't be like that,: There are still some nice Dad out there
- ighodalo76M9ja1,I urge you to forgive your biological dad and step father who treated you so badly. Leave vengeance to God at least you are a success in your chosen field. But pls,it maybe difficult but find a place in your heart to forgive them and move on. Let go,pray to God to soften your heart. Your biological dad did what he did out of ignorance. Pls,I urge you,FORGIVE and FORGET. You're truly blessed and loved!
- ririchacha*Gives @m9ja1 a hug...*...short of words atm...
- m9ja1@ighodalo76 read comments b4 u preach huh! He is forgiven but not celebrated ... And never will be..
- m9ja1@princess_doyin don't be like how ? Did I talk about your father ? Pls if u don't understand English ask questions..
- bra_qwakuI support your view @m9ja1
- sassytrichie@obitrizo..I saw that pics too on my bf' s phone...hehehe, I think he loves maheeda too...maheeda my rival hehehe...love u girl, u know how to play with chalse attah and them mind
- m9ja1@sophisticatedvivy and who are you? How is this a happy news 😡
- sophisticatedvivyI support your view nd I understand ow u feel swthrt. @m9ja1
- evanattanLet her b,atleast she is real.....
- sophisticatedvivyAm sorry... Didn't mean it that way. So many young gals are suffering or suffered the same way u did. Just want them to learn from ur story. Am sorry @m9ja1 @m9ja1
- tokunboogunyemiNice braids !
- m9ja1@tokunboogunyemi thanks
- i_shizzyNaso my popsi xelf dey fyckup
- m9ja1@sophisticatedvivy I'm sorry too , I think I'm very angry now maybe I need calm down ... B4 I put it on my friends... It's past things life goes on .. I'm sorry too dear
- arike_ade@m9ja1 take heart my dear. And do protect your daughter from the wolves. The world is full of people like ur dad and stepfather. People wud never understand if they av not gone tru wat u did. And forget bout forgiveness, wat they did never leaves u. But do console ursef wit the fact dat everyone has a dark cloud in their white sky. Hugs baby u are loved😘
- i_shizzyAm hustling myself hre
- i_shizzyNo father's day 4 me nd #m9ja1
- sophisticatedvivyNo problem swthrt... I understand @m9ja1
- arike_ade@mz_gloria85 keeping it inside doesn't work every time.it just kills u slowly. Speaking out heals us and that way we can find out that we are not alone and that people r going tru the same too. Everyone knows that Oprah Winfrey was raped by her uncle when she was young girl and this hasn't stopped her from becoming a world wide success. Let @m9ja1 share her story. It is much better than for her to keep it inside
- ayodejiope@m9ja1 sorry about that dear.
- kessyp007Hey there @m9ja1 I know u never had d best dad or father but I guess those growing up shitz but got light towards dark for you
- m9ja1Before I leave the chat, the point here is, when you see people in pain like this, because of what father or mother has done , it should make you value yours if they are better, it should make you kiss and appreciate them for being there, this story should not make you think you are better than anyone but just blessed to have it that way , feel for those that had it otherwise not condemn them, and share the story to people that had good parents and don't appreciate them.... As for me I've moved on, I forgive them both but I will not celebrate them, sorry ! every Father's Day only brings back bad memories.. You don't understand but it does... Kiss your father if he was a responsible man! I'm happy for you then...
- barbietomiSorry dear
- ighodalo76@m9ja1,Sorry,I didn't mean to preach and besides,pls we aren't fighting why say 'read comment before you preach'. It is well!
- pauloski14Remember you have a daughter and a husband and ur husband never raped ur daughter or leave her when she is 5years so all father are not like that......grow up @m9ja1
- salusworthBy his stripes, we are healed.
- lou_dimpsFellow Nigerians. .... maheeda has spoken.... she doesn't want to celebrate her dad.... she didn't say she did not forgive the past..... so make una preach till tmrw or next year... she has spoken and respect her choice... abi una know understand the difference btwn forgive nd celebrate....
- kessyp007Go get a life@nelson_gmode
- mizztwankyIn this world when you listen to someone else story u be like mine isn't this worst mhen she's so strong you are so strong @m9ja1 I don't even know today is fathers day until I saw your page but it ain't for me too I tap my father out long time ago!!!
- spiekypOh Maheeda! You've really had a bad time growing up; sorry dear. Now you've made it, haterz envy ya.#fuckhaterz. No look their face. There's more about you than people thought; I love ya way.
- starboytmLoooooool
- anullydfmHmmm!!! What a story... it's well dear
- engr.jiaBut @m9ja1 no matter what that father is d reason u r in ds world... Pls still celebrate him.....
- prettiemoore@nelson_gmode may God punish you.... @m9ja1 dats for you no tnk u needed
- kissdanielofficialHmmm...what a horrible & pathetic experience! Remain strong & tryna forget d past @m9ja1
- kissdanielofficialHmmm...what a horrible & pathetic experience! Remain strong & tryna forget d past @m9ja1
- byosky@instablog9ja
- nwachukwueminyea i understand d experience u went thru but hun honestly happy fathers Day to God who has been your father and has seen you thru all your trials... I LOVE YOU HUN AND GLAD YOU ARE STILL HERE AND GROWING STRONG IN GRACE.
- g.b.s.sYou Are Strong AF. I'm Touched And I Applaud Your Determination 👏👏👏
- cutie_gift223I understand how you feel.. They will not even understand the trauma of been raped, not to talk of your step dad😈it's so sad because she's going to live with the trauma all her life. Is not easy to forgive such. This is real life experience and not a movie story line💔💔💔
- pedrocollinsonWu dooo! @m9ja1
- prettiemooreWord @cutie_gift223
- donkris.swedenTo err is human and to forgive is divine. @m9ja1 you have moved on. Forgive!
- tuk2hardey@m9ja1 I love you die, God will continue 2 uphold you n strengthen u. you a rare gem. Ffbk
- mykysmilesWow u r really strong!
- ugohenry@m9ja1 do u know were he lives? Or still c him/them around? R they still alive? Have u ever felt like calling them to ask them y?
- joydivaliciousThe story that touches de heart.my God will strengthen u, so sorry for u
- joydivaliciousThe story that touches de heart.my God will strengthen u, so sorry for u
- okeymegafulNo matter what has happened in the past, he is your father and he has the fatherly blessing for you and for what he did to you only God can judge him
- voclamb@nelson_gmode whoa!!! Did you just say that😒 you are so pathetic,I pity u
- voclamb@m9ja1 💋💋💋
- nora_baezigNot cool...
- prettymeggyySo sorry dear**hugggsss**
- dollarpoundsYou are a father to ur daughter, so happy fathers day to u@m9ja1
- ayotitusU have a lot to say
- ibm2g13Ur a father to yr daughter#happy Father's Day
- tenaoflyfeSo wat if ur dad left,or your step dad raped u?yes its bad but hve u ever stopped to think.without d man who left there would be no @m9ja1 ,he has his jugement already and m sure he is facing it.as for ur step dad who raped and abuse u.check his life in d pas 4yrs,am so sure karma is all bitching on him.but der are still nice men out dere.like d ones who stood by u when u needed a friend,or those who helped u with a smile or even a simple hug.or even d ones who say nice things about u.celebrate those peeps.i am a girl like u who has never had d pleasure of a man d stuff for me without asking something in return.but when I turned that hate around.i started been strong.u was raped by ur step dad,how about wen its ur foster dad and ur suppose half bro and u got nothing to do about it cos no one wil believe you?.moral of my story.........without the man who left der would be no @m9ja1 ,and to err is human to forgive is divine.
- yettiliciouz@tenaoflyfe true girl...
- ifeanyi_james@tenaoflyfe u ave said it all
- bosschik234Fool Ewu..! @ogbenivic
- daisyahanteWhat about the father of your child boo @m9ja1
- ayo_moreLol
- victorvdanielSo sorry to hear that love. Just be happy my friend for you and your daughter . Bless you
- _meraki1_I'm sorry to hear you suffered.
- braveheart4lifeTo err is human.....have mercy on those men so that you can be free.....pretty pic by the way @m9ja1
- flinkz_ghU beautiful dear
- hush_ariesHappy father's day @m9ja1 u know wat I mean.....it aint easy raising a kid on ur own
- dantala1144Forgive them!
- donzugy_4_the_chicks_drinks"No love for my dady cus the coward wasn't there he passed away and I dint cry cus my anger wouldn't let me feel for a stranger,they say am wrong and am heartless but all along I was looking for a father he was gone!! I hung around with the thugs and even though they sell drugs they showed a young brother love"☆★♡♥happy fathers day
- frank53officialLove the eye...and the lips too!
- mescana004I know ur pain Queen Maheeda,but just as some mothers re good,some fathers re good too and vice versa.
- stanloo671Your father, may not 've done well to you,i'm so sorry about,that,find the heart to forgive him, but,most of your fans/followers,'ve fathers,that,have done so well for us,for our seck,appreciate fathers,though,it may be easy,for you to do so,but,just appreciate them.
- abdoul_hd_They showed a young brother love@donzugy_4_the_chicks_drinks
- nuesmannBoth
- iamchiddyThe devil wey possess you no be today it start self... kpele 😆😆😆😆
- swazo360Lolz
- tiwantiwan_goonsmii_kpokaaaUr situation is quite unfortunate nd is also witnessed by several ladies as well, but u knw wat d courage 2 outgrow such obstruction is worth celebrating nd I'm celebrating u, in d sense dat ur past did nt whey u down but help u build a brighter future 4 itself...its d hope u're giving ladies in Lyk situation.
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