Culled from Punch: Two weeks
after his son flew from Benin City to Lagos in the wheel compartment of an
aircraft belonging to Arik Air, Daniel Ohikhena’s father denies claims that he
abandoned his family, writes JAMES AZANIA
His
schoolmates at Ogbe Junior Secondary School in the Edo State capital know
little about Daniel Ohikhena, the 13-year-old stowaway who flew from Benin City
to Lagos in the wheel compartment of a plane belonging to Arik Air.
Shortly
before his celebrated escapade, Daniel’s mother, Mrs. Evelyn Ohikhena, had
withdrawn him from a private secondary school for want of money to pay his
tuition fees. She had enrolled him in OJSS, which was about 500 metres from her
residence.
Investigation
by our correspondent shows that the teenager had spent only a term in his new
school before embarking on the dangerous adventure. A source said, on condition
of anonymity, that Daniel joined the school, popularly known as ‘Ezoti Junior’
just before the end of the third term.
A youth
named Festus, who also resides in the same neighbourhood as the stowaway boy,
said the latter was not popular in the area.
“We hardly
know him. It was recently that we heard he lives in the neighbourhood. I have
not seen much of him. He was very quiet at school. I have not known him for
long,” he said.
However,
events took a dramatic turn on Tuesday when the boy’s father, Osaigbovo
Ohikhena, 44, materialised as if from nowhere. Earlier, his wife (Daniel’s
mother) had claimed that they did not live together.
Mr.
Ohikhena, who is a driver by profession, said he had been separated from his
family for a year because of a misunderstanding between him and Daniel’s mum.
But he denied the latter’s claim that he abandoned his family.
“I always
pay my children’s school fees and provide money for their feeding regularly,
contrary to claims that I abandoned my family. After I lost my job, I decided
to move to a cheaper apartment and told my wife that they should move in with
me. But she refused and continued to stay in the three-bedroom flat. My new
residence is located on Siluko Road. I decided to come here (Government House)
to tell the world that I am the father of Daniel.
“Initially,
when I heard the news, I thought my son was kidnapped. But my wife said I
should calm down and she promised to get back to me when everything is finally
okay. I never dreamt of going to America nor am I married to another woman. My
wife refused to give the DSS my phone number when they asked for it,” he said.
Giving an
insight to what could have been responsible for the teenager’s strange
behaviour, an expert and sociologist at the University of Benin, Dr Kingsley
Omoyibo, described him as suffering from maladjusted personality, due to
inability to mix. Omoyibo did not only warn against labelling the teenager a
criminal because of his action; he recommended that the youngster be made to
undergo rehabilitation.
Noting
that what happened to Daniel could have resulted from his experience in his
home, the don urged the boy’s parents to live up to their responsibilities in
order to prevent untoward behaviour from their children in the future.
He said,
“Like we learnt, the boy is a recluse. He has a withdrawn personality because
he does not mix. This is why he acts the way he does. This condition is capable
of making him do damage not only to himself, but to his siblings and his
immediate environment.
“The boy
needs to be rehabilitated. Although we cannot say that his attempt to stowaway
in the wheel compartment of an aircraft is criminal behaviour, it is a devious
act that must have been propelled by lack of adequate parental care. I do not
know the background, but what we can extrapolate from this is that the home is
not stable.
“You will
find out that there is a lacuna in the upbringing of the boy and consequently,
it has affected the way he reasons and appreciates societal issues. The way he
sees the complexity of society is different from a child that has complete
socialization. The boy is suffering from maladjusted personality.
“Indeed,
that child, I still maintain, is not a criminal. In the process of
maladjustment, he is exposed to odious things. For a child to keep all night
watching films, it tells a lot about his state of mind.”
Now that a group known as De RAUFS has offered the teenage
stowaway scholarship up to university level, it is the duty of his parents to
seek ways of reshaping his character for a better future.
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