Sunday 12 May 2013

EEB Readers: Thinking of An Open Relationship – My Husband Works Nights, Sleeps All Day & I’ve Been In Contact with My Ex


Dear EEB,
I am almost 26-years old and have been married for 5 years.
My Husband works at night and we hardly do anything together because he’s sleeping during the day because of his work schedule. We have a 3-year old together. Lately, I was been having dreams of an ex from years ago. He was my first real boyfriend at age 18. I felt like I really missed him so I contacted him, and we text and talk daily. I miss what we had. I’m thinking of an open relationship, but don’t know how to tell my husband. I am so confused. Can you the readers of this blog, guide me on the right way and what do you think I should do?  EEB Reader.

3 comments:

  1. Would your decision make a difference for the three of you (you, your husband and kid)? He's working to provide for you

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  2. I'll advice u discuss things wit ur husband, cuz 2me providing for the family is not all that matters. He shld get to understand that satistying you materially, financially, morally and ofcus sexually is part of the marraige vow. I'm a male but I can still tell a little of hw you feel when ur husband is no longer a companion cuz of his work state. The last thing you shld ever think of is having any connection with ur EX cuz the end result will never be a good one, knowing the fact that ur husband is always engaged with activities that are for the benefit of the family which includes you. Do not give room to things that will make you blame the devil plz. To round it up be prayerful cuz GOD is the innitiator and author of marraige!

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